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LOVE IN ADULTHOOD #8

White male: Why do you always date Turkish men, you should give white men a chance.
Overweight woman: Let me put it this way, a white guy sees me fat and tells me how pretty I'd be if I were to lose weight; a Turkish man sees me fat and thinks that I must love baklava and brings me baklava. If you were me, who would you date?

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